Support
Support
Our facilitator lead monthly support groups provide parent support for families of LGBTQ youth.
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Since 1977, our chapter has provided free LGBTQ support groups, parent support, educational resources, and advocacy in the San Francisco Bay Area and beyond.
We believe that family support saves lives and that informed communities create lasting change.
Support
Support
Our facilitator lead monthly support groups provide parent support for families of LGBTQ youth.
Learn MoreEducation & Events
Education & Events
You can find education on gender identity, sexual orientation, and common questions in our resources section. We also host community events and speaker series.
Learn MoreAdvocacy
Advocacy
Public advocacy to protect LGBTQ rights. Join us as we work toward creating an equitable, inclusive world where every LGBTQ+ person is safe, celebrated, empowered, and loved.
Learn MorePFLAG San Francisco is led by a volunteer Board of Directors committed to advancing our mission locally and nationally.
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President
Robert Costic is an attorney who has spent two decades advocating for LGBTQ community members while building a career in public safety. He served for two years at Google, reviewing law enforcement legal processes and overseeing a team of thirteen attorneys. Before that, he spent six years with the Metropolitan Police Department in Washington, DC, as part of the Special Liaison Branch, responding to incidents involving hate crimes, domestic violence, and mental health crises within the LGBTQ community. Robert lives in SoMa with his husband and two cats.He/Him
Secretary
Bruce has worked forty years in the Human Resources field and held various positions in high-tech and insurance companies, most recently at Comcast/NBCUniversal for ten years. He recently retired and is focusing on giving back to the community and traveling to his favorite vacation destination, Paris! Bruce fundraises with various bookstores and nonprofit schools in the Bay Area to ensure each child has books to read. Bruce is also following his dreams to be in the film industry, staying active in two Bay Area indie film companies to learn the craft.He/Him
Treasurer
Seán has over 20 years experience in the Professional Services industry. For the last 12 years he has focused on Business Operations for an organization providing global ERP implementation and support services, managing their Account Receivable, Resource Management, Travel Operations and internal systems implementation teams over the years.He/Him
Board Member
Seth had a long career in healthcare operations and management, most recently as VP of Operations for a small managed care company focusing on catastrophic work related injuries. Retired since January 2023, Seth has had the opportunity to lead high functioning, cross discipline teams toward providing optimal care to injured workers and serving the mission of a growing company. Seth has a Masters in Social Work and worked as a clinical social worker and manager in a variety of health care settings.He/Him
Board Member
Mark's professional work has wandered through ad agency work, digital marketing and direct marketing for fintechs, insurance, healthcare, banking, online genealogy, and more. Along the way he has received awards for work in digital marketing, general advertising and direct response fundraising. Currently Mark is fundraising for the SF SPCA. Mark has been a member of the LGBTQIA+ community for many, many, ahem, many years and is excited to serve on the board of SFPFLAG.She/Her
Board Member
Sandhya is a data analytics leader with over ten years experience across banking, consulting, engineering and big tech industries at global companies. She is currently a Data Analytics Manager at PwC within the Data Risk & Privacy practice leading teams to develop and implement cross-functional analytical solutions to solve complex regulatory and strategic challenges. Prior to moving to San Francisco two years ago, the majority of her career was spent in Zurich, Switzerland across various banking and engineering technical and PM roles.He/Him
Board Member
Nate is a multi-disciplinary entrepreneurial director of digital with over eleven years of experience in a digital-first approach to brand development, brand identity, new product technology, publications, mobile/tablet apps, websites, video content, and cross-channel campaigns. He is a graduate of RISD (Rhode Island School of Design) and holds a Master’s degree in Digital + Media and a Bachelor’s in Fine Arts from the University of Akron.She/Her
Board Member
Tali Pinkham is a Bay Area native. Living in San Francisco and the East Bay all of her life, she appreciates the diversity and progressive, humanistic values of many of the area's residents. As a registered nurse and public health nurse, Tali has worked for forty years in a neonatal intensive care unit and for the past ten years has also been the clinic coordinator of a high risk infant follow-up clinic, where the NICU graduates engage in developmental screening until the age of three. She especially likes to work with underserved families to counsel and connect them with early intervention services and other resources to help their little ones develop to their full potential. Tali and her husband have raised three children. Introduced to PFLAG in 2022, she is navigating her role as a supportive parent to their non-binary eldest. After serving on several school parent boards and UCS Benioff Children's Hospital Branches, she is looking forward to serving on the PFLAG board as an ally and proud parent of a trans young adult.She/Her
Board Member
Karen was born and raised in San Francisco, where she was shaped by being at the epicenter of the gay liberation movement. She began her first career as a teacher in her 20s, and in response to the AIDS epidemic, formed a class for adolescents that first focused on sexual health. Over the next few decades, her class grew to encompass topics from sexuality and gender issues to emotional health and drug education. With a few others, she opened a high school counseling center to meet the emotional needs of her many students.She/Her
Board Member
I like to say that I’ve had a checkered professional career, from law to reproductive rights advocacy to adult literacy - but my through-line is deep involvement in civil rights advocacy and education, including working for nonprofits and serving on nonprofit boards and advisory committees advocating for women’s and LGBTQ+ rights. I am an experienced public speaker, writer and editor. I have a trans adult child with whom I have a loving but difficult relationship and I’m a lay leader in a primarily LGBTQ+ religious community. But in addition to these personal connections, LGBTQ+ and especially trans rights are my main passions now because I can’t stand by and watch as people are deprived of their rights, their happiness, and their humanity.She/Her
President Emeritus
Molly is a Principal Program Manager for PG&E where she leads development of the company’s programs to bring energy resiliency to rural, tribal, and low-income communities. She has been with PG&E for 16 years, primarily leading the development of the company’s voluntary green power and community solar programs.We collaborate with advocacy groups, community organizations, and local leaders across the Bay Area to strengthen LGBTQ support networks and advance inclusive policies.
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